My blog was supposed to me speaking about the time I found out M cheated but present day is taking priority. People I barely know seem to be confiding in me. At coffee yesterday, my friend Kate confided that a friend of hers had saw the husband of a couple that lives in her old estate kissing a girl at work. another sex in the car during lunch. How many people actually have affairs during their lunch hour? How long do these people get to eat? The lady was in the city for an interview and isn't sure if it was a one off.
So Kate wants my advice. The girl is on maternity leave so probably pretty vulnerable and her friend saw her husband kissing this girl in his car. Being asked my advice is so hard. My answer could ruin someones life. Finding out M was cheating was the most horrendous time ever, could i say tell her and know I had caused that to someone else? If I say no, the girl will go through life not knowing she is being betrayed in the worst possible way. The reality is most wives will side with their husband and wont believe the truth. Husbands can be evil, lying bastards and will worm their way out. My thought on tell or not? Speak to the husband. Tell him you know and he should be honest. At the very least he might end it. Otherwise, I am sorry but despite being happy that I found out, I cannot offer advice. Well other than check your husband car regularly!!!
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