My family weren't happy when I started to date M. He was older and had been married before. But I was crazy about him, and moved in with him after a few months. I couldn't believe my luck. Whilst all my friend would complain about cooking and cleaning for their men, M was a domestic god, Cooking me delicious meals to come home to (he works at home) and heart shaped pancakes for brekkie. He was perfect. No man had ever been so affectionate with me.
Looking back, I still don't quite know how I knew he was having an affair. I couldn't find my sunglasses and went to look in his car. His car is only used for work so there was really no reason for them to be there but for some reason I was drawn to it. As I checked under the passenger seat, I found an earing. I knew it wasn't mine. When I asked him he shrugged it off as a colleague had driven to a meeting with him. Why did the way his body froze and his face go white not warn me he was lying? He was the perfect husband of course. No way would he cheat. Little things began to bug me though, Why was he so keen to get out off his work clothes some days? Was that perfume I smelled off him? Why was he swinging from overly affectionate to grumpy? Or was he? Maybe it was pregnancy hormones. Since splitting with M, I have been amazed at how may woman have caught their cheating hubbies by finding the other woman's belongings in their car. I have a feeling that I will only be to happy to do the car cleaning duties in my next relationship!
When a friend mentioned that her sister had been having an affair with a married man for over a year, I made some comment about the wife must know, She scoffed and replied like you did? Instantly she tried to back track but I forced it out of her. She had briefly worked with my husband a few years ago, and there were apparently several work nights out he had kissed other woman. She had also heard he had a fling with a girl in their office. I drove home in shock. By the time he came home I had convinced myself that it was a mistake and kept quiet. No way could he cheat on me.
Its a little seed though isn't it? I found myself checking his messages and found nothing. Well that must be proof he wasn't cheating huh? Until I realised that one of the times I checked, I had just saw him sending a message. So why had he deleted it?
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